April 27, 2025
Spankings in Romance: Why It’s About Trust, Not Humiliation

There’s a huge misconception about spanking scenes in romance novels — and especially in steamy, discipline-focused romances like mine.

It’s not about cruelty. It’s not about tearing someone down.

 It’s about trust. Deep, soul-level trust.

When my heroes discipline their women, it’s not because they want to hurt them — it’s because they want to protect them, guide them, love them better.

A spanking is a physical reminder:

 👉 You’re cared for.

 👉 You’re seen.

 👉 You’re safe.

In Timber Creek, the men are old-fashioned — they believe in hard work, loyalty, and a firm hand when it’s needed. But it always comes with devotion, tenderness, and fierce love afterward.

When Harry pulls Rosie over his lap in The Lumberjack’s Wild Bride, it’s a lesson — yes — but it’s also a physical bond.

 He’s teaching her that she’s no longer alone.

 That someone is strong enough to take the burden from her shoulders.

 That she belongs somewhere — to someone.

And honestly?

Sometimes surrender is the sexiest thing of all.

Curious to experience it for yourself?

 👉 Start with The Lumberjack’s Wild Bride!